The
age of the hipster may be drawing to a close, but in the wedding industry its
key motifs are still strong. Cocktails in jam jars? Typewriters as decoration?
Instagram-filtered snaps of tattooed brides standing in front of graffitied
walls? All are standard. So how to do a vaguely edgy wedding in 2014 without
resorting to cliche? This weekend’s Solange Knowles–Alan Ferguson bash offers a
few ideas
1. Keep the dress code simple
No out-of-character Marchesa princess moment for this bride. Knowles wore a
series of white outfits, including a simple sheath by Humberto Leon for Kenzo,
with a regal cape and bronze wrist-guards adding a touch of high-priestess
drama. Ferguson wore all-white, too – with a double-breasted jacket and
bronze-tipped shoes. Indeed, the whole wedding party wore white, a classy theme
that laughs in the face of spillages.
Musician Solange
Knowles and her fiance, music video director Alan Ferguson, rode bicycles in the
French Quarter of New Orleans en route to their wedding.Photograph: Josh Brasted/WireImage
2. Plan your entrance
Like vintage suitcases and handmade bunting, bicycles have become a hipster
wedding trope. But the Knowles-Ferguson wedding reclaims them by using them as
an actual mode of transport. The bride’s handlebars were resplendent with cream
flowers; she wore a practical(ish) jumpsuit for the task.
3. Consider your pop culture references carefully
Forget naming your tables after Belle and Sebastian records. At the rehearsal
dinner, Knowles and Ferguson screened the film they had watched on their first
date: the 1975 Berry Gordy-produced movie Mahogany, in which Diana Ross plays a
fashion designer and is resplendent in a series of terribly autumn/winter 2014
wide-brimmed hats and jumpsuits. The screening took place at Indywood
Cinemas(strapline: “You won’t find a theatre more New Orleans than
this.”)
Jay Z and Beyoncé
Knowles following sister Solange Knowles’ wedding to music video director Alan
Ferguson.Photograph: Josh
Brasted/WireImage
4. Keep the guest list intimate The only famous
guests were family – sister Beyoncé, of course, Jay Z, Blue Ivy, Tina Knowles –
and friends (Janelle Monáe). And, we assume, no one mentioned the elevator.
Instead, everyone seemed to have a right laugh, dancing in the street and waving
sparklers.
5. Don’t be afraid of an esoteric mood board Most wedding photographers know what’s required at a
vaguely hipster celebration: close-ups of floral headbands and shots of couples
holding oversized balloons while they kiss. But the Knowles-Ferguson wedding
photographer – Rog Walker, who was reporting for Vogue – had more unusual
references in mind. He took inspiration from “the work of contemporary Italian
artist Vanessa Beecroft” for the group shot above, which could also have come
straight from Givenchy’s 2013 haute couture lineup.
6. Place matters New Orleans’ Marigny Opera House is classy
for all kinds of reasons: it’s a church with a mission to support the work of
local artists, it is close to the couple’s home, it is crumbling, artfully, and
it is seriously in demand – the website explains that it is “only occasionally
available for a limited number of wedding ceremonies”. Also, its beautiful tiled
floor could be the subject of a stylewatch all of its own.
Knowles and Ferguson
in the streets of New Orleans.Photograph: Josh Brasted/WireImage
Wedding dress shopping: romantic fun or a great big bother? Could a bride on
a budget, for whom the dream was wearing thin, find the answer in the cut-price
designer dresses on sale at Bicester Village?
A bride
choosing dresses. Photograph: Alamy
Counting sheep has been
usurped. These days, as I lie awake at night, I see white dresses: flowing
diaphanous fabric, little lace frocks, shimmering floor-length gowns. Because I
am midway through wedding-dress shopping – and it is becoming quite a
faff.
I started with a plan, a budget of £500 and an inherent unease with bridal
shops. I was sure I could find something white, off the peg, that would do the
job. Soon I realised how limited my options were. In general – at full price –
£500 seems to buy the sort of dress a woman might wear to a smart lunch or the
office, or a flimsy, irregularly stitched version of a proper gown. And so I
started trawling for bargains on second-hand shopping sites, outlets and eBay,
and checking and re-checking the Matches Fashion sale. As scrolling through
pictures of white dresses on my iPhone occupied ever more of my waking hours,
they started to float across my consciousness at night.
Could Bicester Village, in Oxfordshire, put an end to the impasse? An outlet
store dedicated to discounted past-season designer fashion, it has one obvious
advantage over online trawling: I could see the clothes, touch them, and try
them on. And as shopping centres go, it’s very pleasant – the boutiques are
arranged on an outdoor boulevard, so you’re not pummelled by air conditioning or
blinded by bright lights. Hannah Marriott trying
on a Temperley dressPhotograph: Hannah
Marriott
First, I headed to Temperley – the upper-crust British label famous for
kitting out boho brides – and found a range of white frocks, including a short
ivory dress studded with crystals, a long-sleeved sequinned frock and a fluffy
swan lake shift, which ranged from £300 to £600. They even had a traditional
full-length ivory wedding gown, reduced by about 70% to just under £1,000, and a
lace shrug at £250, about half the price charged by most bridal shops. In truth,
none of the dresses felt quite right – either they didn’t fit or they weren’t
quite the shape I had envisioned – but the possibilities, and the discounts,
felt promising. Valentino: the
changing room of dreamsPhotograph:
Hannah Marriott
My next stop was dream gown territory: Valentino. To a norm like me, the
store felt properly luxe, with dresses hanging with a fistful of space between
them, rather than tangled and jammed together, as I’m used to on the high
street. I tried on some beautiful pieces, including a sample couture-level gown.
The intricately beaded, inky-coloured show-stopper – reduced, er, to £7,000 –
was never really an option, but swishing around in its heavy embellished skirts
gave me a princess moment I hadn’t realised I wanted. More realistically, I
tried two luxuriously thick, cream lace confections for under £1,000. Yes, my
budget was going out of the window. But given that the average wedding dress
costs around £1,400, and is certainly not Valentino, this would still be a win.
Sadly, though, both were too big, and there were no other sizes in stock, which
is often the way at Bicester.
Bicester by
night.Photograph: Alamy
Perhaps unsurprisingly, given that I am 5ft tall, the “too big” theme
continued: Dolce & Gabbana’s glamorous black-lacquered store looked
promising, with rows and rows of knee-length white lace dresses in strapless,
shift and long-sleeved styles, but none were my size. And so it was in Celine
(white shift dress with orange piping, around £600) Versace (long, slinky white
dress with Greek key-pattern embroidery on the straps, under £250) and Bottega
Veneta (milk-coloured midi-length halterneck, £235). And so I left feeling much
more confident about what suited me - but empty-handed, nevertheless.
At Valentino, the shop assistant told me that she had sold an all-white
sample-gown in my size just that morning. In Temperley, there was a near-miss,
too, with an all-white embellished maxi dress snaffled by a bride the previous
day. Clearly, Bicester Village shopping is all about chance – so narrowing your
requirements to one item in one colour is a tricky brief. The best bet? Take a
trip there for bridesmaids’ dresses or wedding shoes (Jimmy Choos for £250!) and
have a casual look for white gowns while you do. You might just get
lucky.
Wedding is one time affair in anybody's life. He/she wants everything minute
thing perfect in the wedding party.One way to make an impression is to
personalize your wedding Party. Here are a few wedding party ideas.
Wedding Accessory Sets: The color of the accessory should be choosen
according to the theme or the wedding party accessories. It would be soothing to
the eyes of the guests.
Bridesmaids Gifts: Without the bridesmaids a wedding party is not complete so
the gifts should be bought by themed categories.
Reception Venue: One sure way to dress up your reception venue is to accent
your tables with beautifully folded napkins. A fancy napkin fold can create a
look of elegance and professionalism to each guest table and to the room
overall.
Decorations: Decorating the wedding reception hall is the hardest thing. You
want everything to be perfect. The table centre pieces should be organised
properly. The table should be covered with a neat and colorful cloth matching
to your theme. The chairs should be placed properly. The vase should be placed
at the centre of the table. There should be adequate space between two tables.
The photo booth should be well decorated. The background color and the blanket
at the bottom should be matching.
Music: The reception music helps create the atmosphere of your wedding. It is
the major part of your reception and should be planned carefully. When selecting
music for your reception, consider the musical preference of your guests, your
budget and the site.
Token of thanks: Give CD's of a blockbuster as little token of thanks to your
wedding guest for sharing this wonderful moment with you.
Stuck for ideas for your wedding gift? Buying a wedding gift is always a bit
of a challenge, no matter who you're buying for. You don't want to end up with
something that disappears into a drawer, or even worse, is taken back to the
shop, leading to embarrassing questions about where it's ended up the next time
you visit. To make a wedding gift stand out, it's important to think carefully
about the particular tastes of the couple, and to pick something that is durable
enough, or self-contained enough, to make a real impression:
1 – Anything Personalised
You can make what might seem like a straightforward wedding gift more
effective by personalising items. This can taken a number of different forms,
and can include engraved cutlery sets, dishware, plates, and mugs. You can also
produce photo books based around a couple’s life, or experiment with producing
collages and personalised messages. Other options include monogrammed linens, as
well as his and her towels. Alternatively, you can produce a personalised gift
basket around a single theme, with messages attached to each one.
2 – Green Presents
If the wedding couple have strong ideas about the environment, then it can be
worth going for an eco friendly gift. This can be anything from making a
contribution to a charity, through to buying gifts made from recycled and
retrieved materials. Recovered wood furniture and linen made from recyclable
materials could be an idea here. You might also want to provide the couple with
a hamper of organic soaps and foods, or pay towards a cooking class. For more
ambitious presents, you might even want to put some money down towards fitting
new homes with solar panels and water recycling systems.
3 – Holidays
While a couple may already have their honeymoon sorted, that doesn't
necessarily mean that you can't spring for a weekend away sometime in the
future. It's best to look for somewhere that contrasts with what they've booked
for their honeymoon. So, if they're going for a Caribbean beach holiday, arrange
a romantic weekend in a European city, or a cottage holiday in the UK.
Alternatively, pay for a voucher for a travel site, so they can make the
decision themselves.
4 – Vintage Drinks
A gift that can keep on giving long after the wedding, a vintage bottle of
wine or whisky can be kept for years, and opened as part of an anniversary
celebration. You can either go for an already popular vintage, or select a new
wine that will mature with the marriage. Many companies offer personalisation
services for bottles that include certificates of authenticity and customised
labels. It's best to find out what their tastes are, though, before making an
investment.
5 – Art
Again, knowing what the tastes of the couple are will go a long way towards
selecting something that they'll want to display and treasure in their home. You
can select a piece of art, or even commission one, that can be given at a
wedding. Alternatively, you can make up a collage of different images and
photographs, and put them together into a framed picture and a photo book.
Dreaming of a wonderland for your winter wedding? Summer may be the most
popular time of year to get married, but winter is the most magical! With the
right color choices and combinations you are sure to find something that is both
fitting to the season and your personality, while still being eco-friendly.
1. WINTER WEDDING TRENDS: COLORS
Set the mood with the right winter hue with the perfect wedding dress. You
can go for a traditional cold weather color, like a rich red or a complete
white-out, or add an edge of navy blue, grey, gold or silver. Try incorporating
vintage lace or using sustainable fabrics to keep your look eco-friendly and
glamorous.
2. WINTER WEDDING TRENDS: MENU
When picking the menu for your winter wedding look for locally grown fruits,
vegetables and meats. There are many options for organic food; however it will
depend on your location as to what is offered. Also, incorporate that winter
theme with organic hot chocolate or serve fair or shade-grown coffee and tea.
Not sure what that means? These are coffees and teas that are grown in the shade
which requires less chemicals and fertilizer than coffee grown in the sun.
3. WINTER WEDDING TRENDS: FAVORS
Create your own themed wedding favors like mores kits, cocoa ornaments or
cookies in a jar. You can even create your own personalized ornaments to give to
guests with recyclable steel and glass.
4. WINTER WEDDING TRENDS: VENUE/RECEPTION
Create a warm, indoor winter wonderland for your romantic celebration. If
you're lucky enough to choose a venue with a fireplace, make the most of that by
burning organic, local wood. Add snowflakes or other winter-themed place cards
to the tables by using recycled paper. These decor additions provide a whimsical
touch to the guest tables. For centerpieces try using organic soy floating
candles with locally grown cranberries as your centerpieces. They will look
vibrant with the glow of the candles, and it's a very cost-effective centerpiece
that is easy to assemble. For the outdoors, creating DIY cranberry ice candles
is a beautiful way to illuminate your wintry wedding night.